Exodus chapter 10. 

God asked the question through Moses which was directed to Pharaoh. How long will you refuse to humble yourself?

I have learned in my mind but not always in my heart the value and the importance of being totally humble before God. Any sense of pride is the way for shutting the door to God's Holy Spirit. If we want to have an ineffective marriage then be prideful. If we want to have an ineffective Ministry, then be prideful. If we want to have an ineffective workplace, then be prideful. Humility is when we surrender everything to God so his Holy Spirit can help us become the men and women we are to be with our spouces. He helps us to develop in the character that we need in order to be effective in Ministry. He helps us to gain the wisdom that we need so that we are effective in our job and in our relationships. Dear God forgive me of my pride and help me to always be humble before you. Amen!