Job Chapter 1 floods my mind with many Life experiences.
Job is a wealthy man who is blameless and upright before God. He fears God and hates evil. He has seven sons and three daughters and he owns thousands of farm animals and MANY servants.
God is pleased with his heart and Satan says if you took his possessions away he would quickly curse you. God allows Satan to take Job's possessions.
In one day, Job loses all his children, all his animals and all his servants except just a few servants survived. Job 1:22 says, “In all this Job did not curse God by charging him with wrongdoing.”
As for me, when a trial and tribulation has struck me of certain magnitude, I have responded with different emotions.
1. When my dad died of cancer it was sad but I rejoiced knowing he was with Jesus and I would one day see him again.
2. When in college, my girlfriend broke up with me. I was an emotional wreck, but I spent three times a day alone with God praising him, not because my girlfriend broke up with me, but because God was still God and he was in control.
3. When we took a terrible hit with our finances, our car broke down and needed major repairs. And our heating system broke down and needed major repairs.  We immediately became in debt which we could not afford to pay. As a result, bills were not getting paid which resulted in further debt. This trial and tribulation lasted for a few years and I was a big baby before God. I whined and complained before God and begged and pleaded for him to put an end to such chaos. I was angry with God over and over again.
I've seen people lose loved ones or have a loved one become very sick and they have turned their hearts away from God.
I want to be like Job and be able to still praise God amongst disaster but I'm not sure I would. Sometimes I want to fight him in my anger verses praising him.
Perhaps I need to change my whole attitude and realize:
1. Nothing we have is really ours. It belongs to God and for such a short time he is allowing us to have it, but we are never guaranteed to have anything or anyone for eternity on Earth.
2. Everything is temporary on this Earth. We tend to think life is only what we see. So we become consumed with this life on Earth and consumed with people and possessions when really this life on Earth is so temporary. The life we face when we leave this earth is what is eternal: Whether eternity in heaven or eternity in hell. We can't be consumed with temporary things whether it be possessions or people or even our own life. We need to be responsible with our lives and with our possessions and around people, but if we lose something, we should not hold on to it like it defines who We are or defines our existence. Once we let people or things define who we are or define our existence, and we lose it or lose them, then we lose any hope for a living. We need to let Christ be the reason that we live because Christ can never be taken away from us.
So realize (and I hate to say this):
1. We will experience loss because everything is temporary.
2. We will experience loss of loved ones or loss of money or loss of possessions.
* Expect it. Don't dwell on it and don't let it bring fear into our lives but just expect it.
* The only thing that is eternal is Jesus. Be consumed with him. Live for him. Let him define who you are and let him define your existence and not the things of this world.
God help me to be like Job during the most difficult times and forgive me when I curse you. Forgive me when I let people or things define my existence in life and not you.