Judges chapter 19.

I don't like this chapter cuz I don't like what happened in it. We learn a lot about the heart of people.

  1. We learn that wicked men especially with no value system will do whatever they wish to meet there selfish desires. As a result, someone is going to get hurt badly.
  2. The old man was very caring to the visitors and invited them to stay at his house. He knew the city square was a breeding ground for evil. But when wicked men came to his door demanding the Levite come out, we learn the heart of the old man. I'm sure he was very afraid of the situation but he obviously did not value a female's life since he was quick to be willing to give away two women so the Levite would be saved. When in fear he gave the concubine. He could have given his own life.
  3. The Levite, was upset that she died, but he did not sacrifice his own life and allowed her to go out with the wicked men. I'm sure he didn't sleep all night because of what was happening to her. He was angered by their wickedness and that she died. So he wanted to get revenge and sent 12 pieces of her body to the 12 tribes of Israel.

Great wickedness came knocking at the door. Fear followed. Fear generated a response that was disastrous. There was no good response. I feel like no matter what, someone was going to die or be horribly abused.

If they stayed in the house and sent no one out, was it inevitable that the wicked men would have broke in and overtook them all? I hope I would have said let's pray and stay together but if they try to break in I'll go out myself. I'll do whatever I have to to make sure nothing happens to my wife.

A noble answer! Perhaps there are some who would applaud my response. But I have to ask myself these questions. How do I treat my wife everyday? Do I make her feel valued everyday? Am I so selfish that I put my desires over hers? Am I willing to compromise on issues? Am I even happy to put my desires aside so I can pursue her desires?

Yes, I am not happy with how the man treated his lady, but I fear I fail the test with my wife on given situation during given certain settings.

Lord help me make the decisions that make my wife feel valued over everybody else.