2nd Samuel chapter 1.
The news and death of Saul and Jonathan is presented to David by an Amelekite man.
I'm drawing my own conclusion that this man was all about looking good before David in hopes of getting a reward. It doesn't say this, but I can't help but wonder if he wasn't the first man to arrive and find Saul dead. As a result he grabbed his crown and his hand band for selfish reasons. Then he decided if he took it to David he could be honored and rewarded by David.
People want to look good versus trying to work as a team so we help each other look good. I'm finding the more I help others look good that it results in me naturally looking good. If we could all focus more on others, I feel we'd have a better place to live and we'd have a higher respect for each other which would motivate us to love and respect each other ALL the more. Once we get caught up in self and focusing on self we lose respect and love for others. Then people end up feeling not valuable and feeling insignificant and are treated as such.
Lord, help me to Value myself the way you value me. Then help me to help others see how valuable they are. Help me to treat them as being very valuable so that it becomes about them and not about me.